Are you A Slut?

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With all the heartache, yearning, and emotional scars and baggage, how could you possibly think about hitting the sheets with someone else? A totally new person to see your naked body with their own quirks you have to figure out?

That sounds more stressful than helpful, right?

But there’s another old saying:

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Of course I say this in a joking way, but until you get out there again, you won’t be able to get whoever it is out of your head completely. Maybe you think that was the only person who could make you feel that way; that you could experience sex like that with; that they are the only person you could ever open up to like that.

Let me tell you – they’re not.

Reclaim your inner vixen, the “slut” who sleeps with who she wants, when she wants because it feels good and it sets her free. “Slut” can be the alter ego you use to give yourself  that boost of confidence to flirt with people you wouldn’t normally; let the “slut” within take you on adventures ; new dates with new people, hook ups, relationships, anything.

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I guess what I am really saying is be selfish.  

And why shouldn’t you?

We put our hearts through so much suffering when it comes to love and romance and there needs to be a balance on the other side of the scale with truckloads of fun, lust and orgasms.

GIRL…let there be orgasms.

Take the necessary precautions with birth control and go to regular doctor’s appointments. Always, always, always, be honest with new dates and new partners. If something doesn’t feel right with someone, even the tiniest bit, don’t do it; ghost on people if you need to.

And do NOT put expectations on yourself about where these flings are going and where they should be going.

Do whatever works best for you and never let anyone make you feel like what you’re doing to find what works for you is a bad thing.

Now go out and get you some.

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