The Crack in Trust

Lady Gaga — 'Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother f*'s reflection.'

Trust. So many shades of trust. Trust among friends, co-workers, family, even in abstract things like customer service or judicial processes. Nonetheless, when you are let down and the trust is broken, no matter how much you try to recover, you hold on to that thorn on your side till the end of days!

I think it’s safe to say that the average person has been on both sides of the coin (either you violated the trust contract or someone broke your trust.) I believe in second chances. We all make mistakes and deserve an opportunity to learn from them. BUT lets focus on keeping your trust with others. Remember to share how you really feel.

When you make a mistake, man up ladies! Take it as an opportunity to reflect and learn and make changes. You can't please everyone that's fo sho sho!  However, you can be a better person. Im sure you have fucked up and wished someone forgave you...return the favor. Put forgiveness into the universe so that the universe will repay you.

Trust in a relationship is a bitch! Yes! I said it and I will say it again!! Fool me once shame on you..but fool me twice shame on me! Once trust has been compromised, take a long deep look in the mirror and ask yourself, “can I do better?” YES YOU CAN! The crack of mistrust will forever stay with you like the scar of that pimple you kept picking at in the 8th grade..you can pretend it's not there by covering it up with make up but you know it will forever be there.Think it through girl!

 

-xoxo