Lifestyle by SMC
Break Up or Make Up?
By Ro

This dreaded question has welled up too many pretty eyes at night. It has punched us right in the gut and has even kept us from getting out of bed! I mean this topic is so inhumane! On the real though, it’s just a matter of thinking things through and making an educated decision.

First of all you have to think about you. Are you really happy? It's like the oxygen mask on the airplane; you must put yours on first before you do anything else! Same concept here. You have to put yourself first before making any decision. It's okay to be selfish at this point! Matters of the heart shouldn’t be taken lightly. You must choose your happiness over anything else.

Being happy is highly contagious. When you are truly happy it rubs off on others. Same thing with when you are feeling miserable. It begins to make others feel uncomfortable around you, thus, becoming the root of an unhealthy relationship. Granted, shit will happen. Its how you deal with it that will determine a healthy outcome. When these mistakes happen, learn to be grateful. Mistakes make us a better person. You didn’t pop out of your mom’s vajajay learning how to walk did you? When your legs were sturdy enough you took your first step without any help. Choose to be strong and take a step forward to make YOU happy. Don’t worry what others may say or think.

You are ALWAYS enough. Let me say it again, YOU ARE ENOUGH! Don’t ever think that you are not worthy of a loving relationship because of who you are.Like a lump of clay, life has molded you in a way to help you survive in a world already filled with too much hate. An author who goes by the name Guy says when you can’t change the circumstances you are in, just accept it. It’s not worth losing your inner peace over.

In a relationship you can commit to being the best version of yourself and let the love grow from there.Stay in a relationship that makes you want to be a better self, not toxic to be around. Don’t lose your faith in love. J. Lo was married three times, and like her song says she still wants to love and dance again. The girl who you would think has everything was missing one thing, her own happiness. She says in her book “Sometimes you have to explore the darkness to get to the light and get back to who you are.” Value yourselves. #youdoyou

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