What changes when you stop viewing yourself through someone else’s lens?

At 23, Alejandra—a woman of Dutch and Mexican heritage—began a transformative journey to discover inner love. In a society that often sexualizes women and imposes rigid beauty standards, she once struggled deeply with her body image. Through introspection and a powerful shift in perspective, Bare Model Alejandra rediscovered her love for her body.

Black and white portrait of Alejandra standing confidently, showcasing her natural curves and beautiful hips — *Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE — Going Bare. No makeup. Unfiltered beauty*

Struggling with Society’s Beauty Standards

Alejandra candidly recalls feeling objectified and pressured to conform to society's narrow definition of beauty. For years, she tied her self-worth to physical appearance, longing to fit a specific mold for acceptance. Over time, she realized that true confidence cannot come from external validation—it must come from within.

Shifting Perspective: From External Validation to Self-Acceptance

The turning point came when Alejandra realized that no compliment or attention could fill the void inside. Seeing herself only through the lens of others’ expectations had diminished her value as a strong woman. By celebrating her stunning, God-given curves and owning just how confident and beautiful she is at every stage of life, she unlocked a deeper sense of self-worth.

Back view of Alejandra highlighting her curvy figure in a thong, celebrating body confidence and feminine form — *Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE — Going Bare. Unfiltered beauty*

(BTS of Alejandra, owning her curves with a playful jiggle.)

Embracing Her Natural Self: A Liberating Photoshoot

In an empowering act of self-expression, Alejandra went Bare in a raw, unfiltered OBARE photoshoot—without makeup. Capturing her authentic self challenged the notion that women must be “all done up” to be beautiful. Her message is clear: Unfiltered beauty transcends superficial societal standards.

Editorial portrait of a young woman with natural freckles and no makeup, celebrating raw beauty in color. — *Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE — Going Bare. No makeup. Unfiltered beauty*

Experiencing Body Liberation Through Art

Alejandra explored the transformative power of nude photography—not to objectify, but to celebrate her body as art. Through this intimate and liberating experience, she embraced her skin, curves, and emotions, building a deeper, empowering relationship with her body.

Artistic black and white nude portrait of a woman highlighting her natural curves and bare back. — *Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE — Going Bare. Unfiltered beauty*

Empowerment and Advocacy for Women

To women struggling with self-love, Alejandra offers a heartfelt message: recognize that mass media often manufactures beauty standards for ulterior motives. She encourages embracing personal standards, celebrating the body’s natural abilities, and honoring the miracle of carrying life.

Artistic nude of Alejandra’s back with a flower covering her chest, emphasizing softness, strength, and body empowerment — *Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE — Going Bare. No makeup. Unfiltered beauty*

(More BTS, with Alejandra laughing out loud as Karlo tries to keep up with her fun energy.)

Reframing Fitness: Mental and Physical Wellness First

Alejandra openly shares how the gym initially worsened her body dysmorphia. Over time, she shifted her focus from chasing an aesthetic ideal to prioritizing overall mental and physical well-being. She champions a holistic approach to fitness that celebrates health over appearance.

Looking Ahead: Fostering Self-Love and Acceptance

Alejandra’s vision is to empower women to connect deeply—beyond superficial expectations. She hopes to dismantle restrictive beauty standards, promoting a culture of self-love, acceptance, and holistic wellness.

"May we all embrace our unique beauty, recognizing it as a force capable of changing the world—one empowered woman at a time."

Find Alejandra on Instagram: @divinely.ale