A Journey of Embracing Stretch Marks, Cellulite, and Self-Love

My Journey with Stretch Marks and Cellulite

My journey with stretch marks and cellulite began in middle school — during what should have been carefree days of adolescence. I was the kid who could eat anything without gaining a pound, but everything changed in eighth grade. A family spring break trip to Mexico led to a sudden 15-pound weight gain, concentrated mostly on my hips and thighs.

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Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE — Going Bare. No makeup. Unfiltered beauty

With that change came stretch marks and cellulite.

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Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE

I remember asking my mom when they would go away. Her answer was simple: never. At the time, I didn’t understand that these marks were simply part of growing up. To me, they felt like unwelcome intrusions on my body, but over the years, I learned they were a normal part of my story — something connecting me to countless other women who had been through the same changes.

Embracing Self-Expression

During the COVID-19 pandemic, when the future of photography and self-expression seemed uncertain, I explored a new way to tell my story. A FaceTime photoshoot became a liberating experience — a chance to capture beauty in a raw, unfiltered way from home. Later, after moving to LA, I dove into a photoshoot that celebrated this transformation. It wasn’t just about creating stunning images — it was about honoring every mark and dimple, reflecting the evolution of my personal journey.

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Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE — Going Bare. No makeup. Unfiltered beauty

Redefining Beauty

Society often portrays stretch marks and cellulite as flaws. But I’ve learned they are not imperfections to hide — they are symbols of resilience, connection, and the human experience. These marks tell a story. They speak of growth, change, and living fully.

The Lesson of Kindness

One crucial lesson I’ve learned is to treat myself with the same kindness I offer others. When I look in the mirror, I imagine speaking to someone I care deeply about. Would I criticize them for a dimple or a blemish? No — I’d highlight their beauty. I’ve learned to speak kindly to myself, focusing on strengths rather than flaws.

No one notices the tiny dimple on your thigh except you;

Young White woman standing, blue eyes, curvy body with cellulite and stretch marks, all natural, no makeup.
Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE — Going Bare. No makeup. Unfiltered beauty

they’re too busy admiring your smile, your confidence, and the joy you radiate. That double chin when you laugh? It’s proof of happiness. Those marks on your skin? They are part of your story.

Embracing the Journey

This journey of self-acceptance is ongoing, just like our bodies. Embrace your moments of vulnerability as opportunities for growth. Self-worth is not defined by appearance, but by the kindness, confidence, and authenticity you bring into the world. Step into your power and let your natural beauty shine, ladies!

Curvy young white woman with hips and stretch marks, natural body, no makeup.
Photo: Karlo Gomez / OBARE — Going Bare. No makeup. Unfiltered beauty

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