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From Former Model to Authentic Self: Meet Ryley Gordon

Ryley Gordon (@RyleyGordon) is a former model who now disrupts beauty standards with her authentic self on social media. Despite criticism and insecurities early in her career, she realized her worth goes far beyond appearance. Ryley focuses on her well-being, not the number on the scale or “flaws” in the mirror. Her message is simple yet powerful:

“Don't be so hard on yourself—you are doing great.”

Q&A With Ryley Gordon

Background and Passions

Please share a brief background about yourself.
I grew up in Southern California and fell in love with surfing, plant-based living, and art. I am a huge animal lover and feel empowered when I’m out in nature. I’ve been painting my whole life, and my love for the human body stems from my artistry.

Modeling Journey and Industry Insights

What led you to modeling, and what pain points did you see in the industry?
I dreamed of modeling since I was little, inspired by Victoria’s Secret models. As I grew older, I learned the industry is filled with eating disorders, competitiveness, and unrealistic beauty standards. Hustle culture often harms women mentally and physically.

What do you think about while modeling in front of the camera?When modeling, I feel connected to my mind and body. It’s a way to share a side of myself I don’t normally show. It brings out my fierce goddess energy and expresses me as a work of art.

How do comments on set affect women?I’ve been criticized for being short, needing to lose weight, or being “too commercial.” This challenged my self-identityand made me self-conscious.

Body Acceptance and Self-Love

Why do women struggle with self-love and acceptance?
Media conditions women to feel “not enough,” promoting diet programs, plastic surgery, anti-aging formulas, and more. Social media editing tools create a false reality of beauty, making women compare themselves unfairly.

Have you struggled with your appearance? How did you overcome it?I used to plan my week around clean eating and workouts, obsessed with looking a certain way. Stepping away from modeling, I learned intuitive eating, stopped checking scales, and worked out to feel good, not look good.

What do you love most about yourself and your body?
I focus on what my body does for me: surfing, hiking, yoga, traveling, dancing. I practice daily affirmations like:

“I am beautiful,” “My body is meant to change,” and “My confidence shines through stronger than my dress size.”

Advice for Other Women

What message do you have for women struggling with self-love?
No matter your insecurities, you are enough. Appreciate what makes you unique and embrace the small things that define you today.

How can women uplift each other?
Vulnerability and honesty are powerful tools. Accepting ourselves encourages others to do the same, creating a happier and healthier community.

Anything else you’d like readers to know?Most of what you see online is curated. Even fitness influencers show only their best angles. Remember: we all change, evolve, and experience highs and lows. Don’t be too hard on yourself—you’re doing great.