Who Am I?

A Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth

My Past Identity: Defined by Degrees and Jobs

Prior to a year ago, I defined myself by the degree I did not have and where I worked. My introductions were carefully sugar-coated to impress others:

“Hey I’m Amberly, I am a retail manager at a jewelry store. I went to university but it just wasn’t for me… I want to be my own boss and live my dreams.”

The truth? I felt like a failure. I had dropped out of university three times because I lacked passion for my studies. I called myself stupid and clueless, convinced I was headed nowhere.

Working as a key holder for Pandora Jewelry, I was ashamed of my retail job—even though it was all I had. I glorified my role while knowing I was capable of much more.

The Turning Point: Travel and Reflection

Feeling lost and frustrated with my identity, I quit my job, packed a backpack, and traveled to a new continent with my best friend for two months.

Coming home, I accepted a promotion—but it wasn’t the missing piece I thought it would be. The real transformation came from introspection and self-discovery, not external titles or roles.

Who I Am Today: Defined by Goals, Ambitions, and Values

Today, I define myself by my goals, ambitions, and personal traits:

“Hi, I’m Amberly, an inspiring and loving woman on a journey to become a public figure. I am motivated to empower others to live a life they truly love.”

I know what I want from life, who I want in my space, and the kind of partner and family I aspire to create. I am loving, joyful, and intentional in the people, places, and experiences I surround myself with.

Cultivating Self-Love and Motivation

I am grounded, whole, and complete. I have dreams, goals, and action plans to make them a reality. I show up for myself daily because I understand what’s at stake if I don’t pursue my vision—my dream life.

You—the reader—inspire me daily to keep showing up for myself. By seeking the bright side in every situation, no matter how dark it may seem, we create a life full of adventure, beauty, and opportunity.

Discovering Who You Want to Be

The key lesson I learned: it wasn’t about discovering who I was—it was about discovering who I wanted to be and committing to becoming that woman.

Your journey is just as important. Reflect on who you want to become and what it will take to show up for yourself every day.

Join the Conversation

I want to know what’s on your mind! Reach out to me on Instagram at @ambersabourin and share your thoughts. Let’s explore this journey of growth together.

Love always,
Amberly