Most of You Aren’t Living

Your Best Life – Find Out Why

How to Go From Being Attached to the Thought of Living a Life You Love to Actively Committing to It

Understanding the Difference Between Attachment and Commitment

Are you attached to the thought of living a life you love, or are you actively committed to making it happen?

Attachment keeps us in a state of imagining a perfect life without taking consistent action. Commitment, on the other hand, means aligning your actions, principles, and values to create a reality that reflects the life you truly desire.

Ask yourself:

• Are you taking consistent action to fill your life with things you love?
• Are you patient and loving with yourself during the process?
• Do you give yourself the space to experiment, make mistakes, and find what truly works for you?
• When you discover what works, do you allow yourself the time to gain momentum and see real results?
• Are you challenging yourself to grow beyond your previous limits?

Why Most People Don’t Live Their Best Life

All of us want the life of our dreams, and some achieve it. But most of us settle for a lesser version of what we truly want. Why? Because we aren’t actively committed—we’re merely attached to the thought of it.

We know what’s possible. We might even know the steps required to get there. But if action isn’t taken, the life we imagine remains just that—imagined, not real.

The Power of Knowing Your Why

The first step toward active commitment is asking yourself:

• Why do I want to live this life?
• What does a life I love actually look like for me?

Your why is the source of your passion and inspiration. When you are crazy in love with your why, it fuels the actions that turn dreams into reality.

How Active Commitment Transforms Your Life

When you move from attachment to commitment:

• People notice your actions and your dedication to what you love.
• Your energy communicates passion, hope, and inspiration to others.
• You stop obsessing over the end result and start fully living in the present, guided by your reasons why.

Daily reminders of your why keep your commitment alive. Planning your actions around that why ensures that your choices consistently reflect the life you want to live.

My Journey From Attachment to Commitment

I wasn’t always committed to living a life I love. I struggled with self-love, body image, and purpose. But when I discovered my why—impacting the world positively—I shifted. Now:

• I actively commit to my purpose every day.
• I let that commitment guide my actions and interactions.
• You, my readers and followers, are my why. Everything I do is intended to positively impact you and the world around us.

Your Turn: Commit to Your Best Life

Take a moment today to reflect: Are you attached or committed? How can you start taking consistent actions that honor your why?

I’d love to hear how you are actively committing to living a life you love. Connect with me on Instagram @ambersabourin.

Much love,
Amberly